Pauline Campos

Dimelo: "Am I Not Aiming High Enough?"
Dimelo: "Am I Not Aiming High Enough?"

Dear Pauline,

I  am currently in my last year at college studying Fashion Merchandising. I've never been a huge fashion nerd but I have always loved being creative with my style, so I figured it would be a fun major to take. Thing is, I feel like the only student who doesn't plan on becoming the next big thing.


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Dimelo: "Is My Husband Not Interested in Sex Because He's Cheating?"
Dimelo: "Is My Husband Not Interested in Sex Because He's Cheating?"

Dear Pauline,

I am 56 years old and my husband is ten years younger. We've been married for 24 years and I am still in love with him. My problem is that I sometimes I feel that sex isn't important to him. He isn't in the mood or he's stressed out or he''s had a long day at work. The rest of our marriage is still going great, but this is upsetting me. I ask him all the time if everything is OK and he always reassures me that nothing is wrong. But I'm wondering....


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Dimelo: "How Do I Get Him to Notice Me?"
Dimelo: "How Do I Get Him to Notice Me?"

Dear Pauline,

I am person that when they notice a person they are interested in, they speak their mind. The problem is, there's this really cute guy I like, but he's so oblivious to the topic of love. About a few months ago, I went up to the guy I liked him, but he just looked at me like I was speaking in German!


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Dimelo: "How to I Keep My Sons Away From the Machismo in My Family?"
Dimelo: "How do I Keep My Sons Away From the Machismo in My Family?"

Dear Pauline,

I need help before my family totally traumatizes my kids. For whatever reason, they are convinced that my boys need to man up, or something equally stupid, According to the Tios, my little men need to be separated from the "boys"— and their primitas in the family — because only babies still believe in Santa. Ummm, they are 7 and 8! I love my tios and so do my boys, but I'm not ready to them to the wolves in the name of outdated machismo.

Ayudame!


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Dimelo: "How Can We Avoid Holiday Family Functions Without Feeling Guilty?"
Dimelo: "How Can We Avoid Holiday Family Functions Without Feeling Guilty?"

Dear Pauline,

My husband and I are dreading the holidays. Each of us comes from parents that makes us feel grateful to have escaped. We're talking about shouting matches and broken furniture. As adults we each separately endured our parents banging on doors, showing up unexpected, and disregarding boundaries.


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Dimelo: "Should I Take Back My Ex?"
Dimelo: "Should I Take Back My Ex?"

Dear Pauline,

I'm a mother of four and I'm dreading the holidays. I miss my family being whole. This time last year, we were, hasta que he went and cheated on me and I kicked him out. I know my ex is a total d*ck but he had his moments. He has this little dimple when he smiles and he's a great dad and we fit perfectly when we spooned at night. Ay dios mio...


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Dimelo: "My Partner Wants to Watch Porn Together"
Dimelo: "My Partner Wants to Watch Porn Together"

Dear Pauline,

I'm married and happy with both my marriage and still totally in love with my marido. He still makes me laugh just as hard as the day we first met, we have just as much fun doing nothing as we do getting dressed up to go out on the town,  and I think our sex life is great. 


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Dimelo: "How Do I Get Back into the Dating Game?"
Dimelo: "How Do I Get Back into the Dating Game?"

Dear Pauline, 

I'm an almost-divorced mom of three and adjusting to the new reality is hard. (He left us right after the birth of our third baby and my kids and I are living with my mami now.) What I want to know is how to get back in the dating game. I have no intention of sitting back and feeling sorry for myself while he flaunts his new girlfriends on Facebook.


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Dimelo: "How Do I Get Her to Forgive Me For What He Did?" (Part 2)
Dimelo: "How Do I Get Her to Forgive Me For What He Did?" (Part 2)

Dear Pauline,

I know I don't see a lot of questions from guys here, but I think that too often we think we lose machismo points for appearing unsure of ourselves. Orgullo is orgullo, but I'm man enough to admit when I need help and smart enough to ask for it.


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Dimelo: "How Do I Get Her to Forgive Me For What He Did?"
Dimelo: "How Do I Get Her to Forgive Me For What He Did?"

Dear Pauline,

I know I don't see a lot of questions from guys here, but I think that too often we think we lose machismo points for appearing unsure of ourselves. Orgullo is orgullo, but I'm man enough to admit when I need help and smart enough to ask for it.


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