Hey Jasminators, today let's talk about love! Do you think you can have more than one love in your life?
I definitely think you can have more than one love in your life. Everyone tries to make it seem like you have only one true love and for some that's possible, but in all reality we will love different people because everyone is different. I believe that you have to date different people before you find the "one." I don't even really know if there is such a thing as "the one."
But dating different people is a good thing because you learn so much from each relationship! It will help you become ready when it's time to settle with someone who truly fits. Looking back, I remember being so heartbroken over certain breakups, but when I look back at it now I don't have any feelings for them anymore, so I know there's more than one love in my life.
You also have to remember that sometimes we confuse love with being in love. If you're going through a hard breakup just remember that time is honestly the best medicine. Only as time goes by will you realize if you really loved somebody. But give yourself real time, I'm talking about eight months to over a year. Most likely after that time passes you will realize that you weren't even in love. You might even ask yourself, "what was I thinking?" Hah!
Hopefully that's not the case, but if it is it's okay! It's part of the process of finding your love. If after all that time you find yourself still being in love, but he or she doesn't love you back than you have to realize that love is not a one way street and you deserve more than that anyways. Trust me, as time passes it will get better! I believe that eventually someone will sweep you off your feet and make you forget about the ex and you will move on to the next :)
I hope this advice helps you and please continue to leave your comments below. I read them every time and get new blog ideas from your suggestions. Love you all :)