Sujeiry Gonzalez

Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Love Guru on Exitos 93.9FM,  a relationship writer and author of Love Trips. Get her relationship advice daily on LoveSujeiry.com.

How To Ease Sex Anxiety
4 Ways To Help Ease Sex Anxiety

With the arrival of Fifty Shades of Grey, women everywhere are stretching their muscles and doing their kegels. Chicas are really trying to get their freak on!

But what if you're hoping to spice things up with your lover but you're a newbie at a lot of this kinky stuff? Oh the pressure! It's just too much, but it doesn't have to be.


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Sexting 101: Best Messages to Get Him Hot, Not Bothered
Sexting 101: Best Messages to Get Him Hot, Not Bothered

Whether you’re in a long distance relationship or looking to add extra touch of kinky to your relationship, sexting is the way to go. It’s free and easy to do — all you need is a bit of imagination and Snapchat.

You also want to add enough sex appeal so he doesn’t freak out (hey, you want to get him hot, not bothered). The goal is to make him feel like he wants to pin you against the wall and kiss you passionately after sexting — not question your sexual prowess. Here are some sexts to get you started:


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Surprising Benefits of Sex
8 Things Latinas Never Considered When It Comes to Sex

Whenever I mention masturbation or utter the word “pene” around some Latinas, they shriek with terror or shake their head in shame. We really need to do away with this idea that sex is taboo, chicas. Thankfully, we have My Little Yoni to help.


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Forget Flowers! 10 Kinky Valentine's Day Gifts
Forget Flowers! 10 Kinky Valentine's Day Gifts

Valentine's Day is near, and so it's time to shop for gifts for your love. Thing is we sometimes get in the same old, gift-giving rut. So instead of buying him flowers, chocolates, or a tie, how about something you both can use… wink wink. Whether you like it raw and passionate or slow and sensual, these 10 kinky treats will make a perfect Valentine's Day present. 

MORE: A Valentine's Day gift guide you'll actually use


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Is Mr. Right Actually Mr. Wrong? 6 Dating Deal Breakers
Is Mr. Right Actually Mr. Wrong? 6 Dating Deal Breakers

A woman must know what she wants and needs in a relationship. You have to be "self-first," as I call it, and be crystal clear on what makes you smile and what makes you hurl. Si no you'll date any homeboy that kicks it to you, and won't have anyone to blame but yourself. In other words, if you don't know your dating deal breakers and non-negotiables, you in danger, girl.

Lets tackle some blaring signs so you can dump the guy who waves these red flags. It's what Cupid would want you to do right before Valentine's Day. 


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What Women Really Want Out of Foreplay
What Women Really Want Out of Foreplay

You finally get that hombre you desire alone. You are thirsty and he's the only thing that can quench your thirst. Until he kills it and fumbles his way up and down your body.​​ Chico, que te pasa? Don't you know how to ​get a woman revved up?

Some men really don't.


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Is Your Man a Sex Addict?
Is Your Man a Sex Addict?

They say that a man's sexual peak is at when he hits 21. From a young age, men are just raring to go, which may explain why many hump and ask questions (what's your name again?) later. If you like sex, that's great news. You have a walking penis at your disposal. But what if you want to build a relationship outside the boudoir? What if your man is so into sex that you're having trouble walking straight?


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New Years Resolutions for Better Sex
8 New Years Resolutions for Better Sex

3, 2, 1...Happy New Year! Every year we shout this out at the top of our lungs, wishing for more of what we desire in the new year. But getting smashed off coquito and screaming louder than your boisterous tia when the ball drops won't change your life. Yes, a new year is a new beginning for a better everything, but you have to work on it.


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Is Your Coworker a Dominatrix?
Is Your Coworker a Dominatrix?

Rihanna once sang, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me." Wait, what? That's the first thought that crossed my mind. Who would want to get spanked and whipped for pleasure? The last whooping I received was at the hands of my very Dominican mother. No one wants to relive that, right? Right?!


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Sex Drive: What Everyone Else is Doing in the Bedroom
Sex Drive: What Everyone Else is Doing in the Bedroom

When I was single and ready to mingle (and commit), I’d seethe at cutesy couples that couldn’t take their hands off of each other. What do they have that I didn’t have with Paco and Luke and Elijah? I know how to work it, so why didn’t those relationships last? I hate all these sexy couples!


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