Sujeiry Gonzalez

Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Love Guru on Exitos 93.9FM,  a relationship writer and author of Love Trips. Get her relationship advice daily on LoveSujeiry.com.

What Women Really Want Out of Foreplay
What Women Really Want Out of Foreplay

You finally get that hombre you desire alone. You are thirsty and he's the only thing that can quench your thirst. Until he kills it and fumbles his way up and down your body.​​ Chico, que te pasa? Don't you know how to ​get a woman revved up?

Some men really don't.


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Is Your Man a Sex Addict?
Is Your Man a Sex Addict?

They say that a man's sexual peak is at when he hits 21. From a young age, men are just raring to go, which may explain why many hump and ask questions (what's your name again?) later. If you like sex, that's great news. You have a walking penis at your disposal. But what if you want to build a relationship outside the boudoir? What if your man is so into sex that you're having trouble walking straight?


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New Years Resolutions for Better Sex
8 New Years Resolutions for Better Sex

3, 2, 1...Happy New Year! Every year we shout this out at the top of our lungs, wishing for more of what we desire in the new year. But getting smashed off coquito and screaming louder than your boisterous tia when the ball drops won't change your life. Yes, a new year is a new beginning for a better everything, but you have to work on it.


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Is Your Coworker a Dominatrix?
Is Your Coworker a Dominatrix?

Rihanna once sang, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me." Wait, what? That's the first thought that crossed my mind. Who would want to get spanked and whipped for pleasure? The last whooping I received was at the hands of my very Dominican mother. No one wants to relive that, right? Right?!


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Sex Drive: What Everyone Else is Doing in the Bedroom
Sex Drive: What Everyone Else is Doing in the Bedroom

When I was single and ready to mingle (and commit), I’d seethe at cutesy couples that couldn’t take their hands off of each other. What do they have that I didn’t have with Paco and Luke and Elijah? I know how to work it, so why didn’t those relationships last? I hate all these sexy couples!


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7 Things to Know About Anal Sex
7 Things to Know About Anal Sex

In a recent episode of The Mindy Project, Mindy Lahiri accused her beau, Danny, of trying to enter through her backdoor. Yes, he wanted to have anal sex. Mindy freaked and with good reason. Anal sex is a deeply (pun intended) intimate act. The butthole is where something (ahem) comes out of, not where you generally want something to go in. Not to mention, it can be painful. Not to mention, it harps on insecurities.


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7 Sex Terms Every Latina Should Know
7 Sex Terms Every Latina Should Know

If you've ever clicked on Urban Dictionary, you know that it holds a variety of definitions relating to sex. Sex terms that are so extreme, like "bumpkin," that not even the freakiest and most passionate Latina of the bunch would dare to try. If you do, God bless your courage.


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How to Choose the Right Partner for a Threesome
How to Choose the Right Partner for a Threesome

In today's world, sex isn't only about a man and a woman or even a human and another human. Some folks get off on sleeping with blow-up dolls. Others are attracted to the same sex. Then there are those who don't feel that one partner at a time is enough. And there we have the threesome — every man's fantasy and every woman's nightmare. But wait, is it?


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Why You Should Take Your Man to a Sex Toy Shop
Why You Should Take Your Man to a Sex Toy Shop

When I first walked into a sex store I envisioned my very Catholic and very Dominican mother dropping to her knees. “Santo Dios!” she yelled while dousing me with holy water. I’d scurry right out, like a mouse that’s been caught in a trashcan. I felt like such a sinner.


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7 Sex Moves All Women Wish Men Would Stop Doing
7 Sex Moves All Women Wish Men Would Stop Doing

Sex. We all want to have it and we all want to be great at it. Women want men they've bedded to brag about their sexual prowess, and for other men to desire them even if they can't have them. Men are especially pressured to be the best en la cama. From measuring their penises to discovering that elusive female G-spot, los hombres want to be macho macho men and make us scream for more, more, more!


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