Sujeiry Gonzalez

Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Love Guru on Exitos 93.9FM,  a relationship writer and author of Love Trips. Get her relationship advice daily on LoveSujeiry.com.

Find A Buddy! Loneliness Can Literally Kill You
Find A Buddy! Loneliness Can Literally Kill You

Whenever I think of loneliness, I imagine a solterona confiding in her cats (her only friends) while sobbing like a heartbroken telenovela star. I know what you are thinking: how dare I assume that a single, old cat lady is lonely? True. But there is something to say about isolation and how it affects us negatively.


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Number Sexual Partners Conversation Advice
Que? How Many People Did You Sleep With?!

I used to boast about my number of sexual partners. For a long time that number was zero. While my friends were getting it on to the melodies of Blackstreet and Silk, I was tightening the lock on my chastity belt. No man shall enter until they prove they are worthy of my vagina! Or so I thought.


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Ay, El Amor! And What It Does to Our Brain
Ay, El Amor! And What It Does to Our Brain

When in love, we feel happier than ever, share YouTube videos of baladas on our Facebook timeline, and want to spend every minute of the day with our significant other. Love truly does a number on us, and I’m including myself in the mix.

Turns out it’s not really our fault. We get annoyingly mushy, attached, and overly elated because love does something to our brains. Researchers from universities in China and New York tracked how our brains change when we are in love, or if we have been recently cast aside and heartbroken.


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5 Reasons to Give Your Ex Another Chance
5 Reasons to Give Your Ex Another Chance

There’s a Spanish saying that goes: “Mejor estar sola que mal alcompañada” (Better to be alone than in bad company), and I completely agree. No one should be in a relationship for the sake of being one. A lifetime of romantic disconnect is a high price to pay for lackluster companionship. If and when things go south with your lover, and your needs are not being fulfilled, end the relationship — that’s what a breakup is for.


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Killer Headache? Have Sex to Cure the Pang
Killer Headache? Have Sex to Cure the Pang

Your bebes are screaming, your man is too busy watching the game, and you feel a killer headache coming on. Seconds later, you have a painful migraine that just won’t go away. How to cope? Grab your hombre off that couch and head to your cama.

MORE: 6 Foods and Drinks That Promote Great Sex


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Latinas Are Winning! Men Like Big Butts And They Cannot Lie
Latinas Are Winning! Men Like Big Butts And They Cannot Lie

When I was younger, I didn’t have a big booty. My Dominican genes had yet to kick in and I was saddened by the flatness of my derriere. Not to mention, I felt left out.

Latinas are known to have amazing behinds (Jennifer Lopez, anyone?!) and Latinos love a woman with curves. How else will they be inspired to create innovative catcalls, like, “Tu con tantas curvas y yo sin frenos! (You with all those curves and me without breaks!)”


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How Singles Can Get Out of a Dry Spell
7 Ways Single Ladies Can Get Out of a Sexual Dry Spell

There was a time in my 20’s where I went two years without having sex. Yes, two years! My vagina shutters at the thought.

Why did I undergo such a long drought? It was sort of self-imposed. I promised myself to be a good Catholic Latina and not give up my goods until I was in a meaningful, committed relationship. Men wined and dined and tried to get in my pants, but my chastity belt was unbreakable — until I met Luke.


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Don’t Fear the Kink! 6 Sex Toys for Beginners
Don’t Fear the Kink! 6 Sex Toys for Beginners

We all have that one friend that is afraid of our buzzing playmates. She raises a brow when you mention how much you enjoy your “bullet on your clitoris" or utter the word "lube." “No one needs to know your business,” your amiga often says. “That's so...kinky,” she says with a mix of curiosity and disapproval. So you retrieve to your land of dildos and vibrators, hoping that one day she’ll embrace her very own B.O.B (Battery Operated Boyfriend).


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How to Talk Dirty to Your Guy in Spanish
How to Talk Dirty to Your Guy in Spanish

You're in the heat of passion: He's licking your nipples, nibbling on your lower lip, pinching your thighs, booty, and waist, and he whispers, "Say something in Spanish." If you're a native English speaker like me, you may do a double take. I only speak Spanish to Mami, and I don't want to think about that (or her) mid thrust!

Still, you — I — go with it. If he wants you to talk dirty to him in Spanish, the least you can do is give it a try. So what do you say? What words and phrases in español will turn him on?


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7 Foods and Drinks Promote Great Sex
6 Foods and Drinks That Promote Great Sex

Food. We gotta have it. It's sustenance. It keeps us alive. It promotes...pleasure? Yes. And I'm not talking about the pleasure you feel when you devour a rich slice of chocolate cake, or a crunchy pastelito, or a savory and sugary cinnamon churro. Although that all tastes and feels amazing, eating certain foods can turn us on down there. And drinks are not to be left out. Sipping on a little somethin' somethin' may lead you to devour the man in your life.
Here are some foods and drinks that serve as aphrodisiacs and promote great sex:


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